Thursday, December 5, 2013

10 indicators you are dealing with a master manipulator

signs you are dealing with a master manipulator:
1. They take their time sinking their tentacles around you

2. They isolate you from any other positive life source 

3. They camouflage the hangmans noose as it were by puffing you up rather than building you up. 

4. They give false hope and a lulled sense of security/ acceptance

5. They never reveal their "full hand" even though they press you do show your heart, intentions, desire, passion, mistakes, failure, thought, etc. 

6. If you DO escape- they blame you and mark you off as insubordinate or rebellious or uncommitted. 

7. Everything around them is a masquerade - painted tombstones- smoke and mirrors

8. They don't have plans- they have agendas

9. They are personally cold hearted and often feigning hardship to draw others in who seek to help the hurting only to ensnare them

10. Bitterness. Their life is full of bitterness- always made up of those who have escaped the clutches of their agenda and control. It's never their fault. It is always the fault of the one that saw the "man behind the curtain."
They become tools of their experience of how to manipulate the next victim. 

They are master scholars. Always finding ways of communicating their special brand of poison.  

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